Re: Emotional cheating?
There’s nothing wrong with thinking that another man is good looking. You thinking that the doctor is good looking is no different than you thinking that some actor on TV is good looking.
Yes often times I look at other men and think “damn he’s hot”. Does that make me feel guilty or make me feel like I’m “cheating” on my SO? No. Yes I recognize that idea that men other than my SO are good looking…but the thought of pursuing something with those men never even cross my mind.
On the flip side, my SO also often makes comments on girls that he thinks are “hot”. No, I don’t mind or think that he’s “emotionally cheating” on me b/c he thinks some other girl is hot.