I am being emotionally blackmailed.
I have a very kamz’or dil and don’t like to see people hurt, crying or sad. Now, this tactics is being used against me.
What should I do?
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If they are using emotional blackmailing, you should use un-emotional blackmailing.
When they tell me they are dying, I act as if I am dead already.
They cry once, I go into mourning for days.
They look sad, I bring an even more tragic expression on my face.
I always win. Whatever they do, try and do it better.
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^ dang it man, the idea is to not feel their pain or even mimic their grief. :D
I want a pain/grief-free counter attack.
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Luxxy your dil is as kamzoor as mines is tough :p
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^
No Sara, I am very sensitive to other people's grief etc. So, yes, I am a kamz'or dil person.
I want to be stronger to thwart emotional manipulation and blackmail of women.
You know any tactics?
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Sure.
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No Sara, I am very sensitive to other people's grief etc. So, yes, I am a kamz'or dil person.
I want to be stronger to thwart emotional manipulation and blackmail of women.
You know any tactics?
ignore em.
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No Sara, I am very sensitive to other people's grief etc. So, yes, I am a kamz'or dil person.
I want to be stronger to thwart emotional manipulation and blackmail of women.
You know any tactics?
Ignore them, as AE said, you don't see them hear them or feel em, they are dead to you.
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msg communicated
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What danny said
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dil mazboot karo.
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Iodex lagaou :D
seriously ignore them ..
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I have a very kamz'or dil and don't like to see people hurt, crying or sad. Now, this tactics is being used against me.
What should I do?
Only those whom you have an emotional bond with can emotionally play with you - ask yourself - are they being unreasonable? if yes, let them know that you feel they are and that you're not falling for it.
as for the rest, like others here said - pay no heed.
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who is doing that ?
i wonder what could be the reason 
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there’s no better solution i think than this
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There are people in the world that will avail themselves of any opportunity to take advantage of someone or something.
The best solution is always to protect yourself. And if protecting yourself means improving yourself.....then so be it.
It's very easy to pass the buck of responsibility to someone else and accuse them, but true effectiveness lies in searching for the weakness within and curing that.
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same here…& i seem to be getting hurt anyways…if i hurt them i’m hurt…& if i try not to hurt them …i’m still hurt 'cause then things aren’t wht i wanted them to be…
so i just not hurt them…& be hurt …tht’s easier than to stay with the guilt of hurting someone…
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** …smart…**
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Dil mera tor diya us ne... now available at a store near you. :D
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knowing you through your posts...the almighty U and being blackmailed...ha ha (whatever)