how do u feel when ppl u love try to emotionaly blackmail U ? 
… what u do ? .. i get upset over some ppl’s behavior..just becz they know i have a soft heart they try to blackmail me .. i feel like i am not free to choose my own behavior ..i have to be nice n stay calm no mater how mad i am … i cant see anyone crying .. this is not fair !
that sounds really cruel,
unless theyre blackmailing you into doing something that was for your own benefit
Re: emotional blackmail
Pretty wierd situation, I mean I was never ‘emotionally’ blackmailed’
I agree with Xara here if they blackmail to to do something thats for your own good then its okey otherwise never change your behaviour about anything if someone truly cares about you he will accept the behaviour YOU chose not something thats forced on u..
and do consider if some ppl change their own behaviour sometime to make u feel good ...
You have to learn to refuse. It's your life. Don't listen to those people if you don't feel like what they are telling you to do. Because if they blackmail you emotionally, they are not your friends! Be it online friends who don't want you (in general) to post your pictures or real life friends. A true friend would never blackmail you emotionally and take advantage of your weaknesses. Start to speak up sandleen for what YOU want or how YOU want to do things your way.
TELL em to go to hell... this aint no puppet game gal u let em control ur life??? DONT its ur life dont let ANYONE interfear with it ...
“Blackmail” is one word that recently came up between me and a guy. After getting my feelings into him a bit, etc. I found out some very disheartening information pertaining to him lying to me about something big…ok really REALLY big!..(without going into details about what it was). I found out from a third party what this info. was and confronted the guy. The nerve of this guy though…he accused ME in turn for trying to “blackmail” him w/the info. I found out. I was like huh, is this guy suddenly gone psychotic?! I was 1) very saddened and hurt and 2) angry as heck that where as HE was the guilty, slimy-as-sin party here, he was turning it around on me as if I had done something wrong! where as the truth is, I was nothing but a lady, a sensitive, caring person whose only fault was getting her feelings a little bit involved without knowing the damning truth.
Life is a book of soap operas sometimes but you have to move on and learn from your mistakes regardless! 
yeah
Sando jan…
You can be emotional blackmail, only if you show yourself weak if front of others… jan be brave and try not to have a soft heart in front of the cruel people…
there is a saying that
Love those who love you and hate those who hates you, but love removes hate…
toro n xara i know its okay when they blackmail me to to do something thats good for me n i do appricate it but ahhh i dont know how to exsplain :(…it is horrible as it makes one feel so helpless, i cant think of a worse method to get someone to do wat u want. u use the love or caring feelings that the other might have for u, to get back at him/her..
Is this the way he wants to be loved? By force? :(…
when i love someone n care for them i cant be cruel ..i have this tinny heart ..i feel so helpless 
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and how can i tell em to go to hell cz no matter what i love em …
yes love makes u sooo weak .
Ignore them. Plain as simple. easier said than done though but himmat karay insaaN tau kiyaa ho naheeN saktaa.
I cant ignore ppl i love :(...
then make them understand…
and stay true to what you believe :k: dont show them you will give up easily, show them and tell them you love them but that its important they understood how you feel as well
tell them that at the end of the day its your life, you have to make your own decisions and you’ve prayed to Allah so inshaAllah whatever happens from here on is fated :k: whatever comes your way is for your best
dont let them get to you, it is cruel, but then desis are like that
There is always an excellent way to handle these situations. But you have to have balls the size of Mars.
Two words would do it. First word starts with "F".
My balls are huge (ladies, ahem.. thats not supposed to scare you off)