Emotional Attachment-prevention?

[diwana]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

@Nisha25

…
so you’re saying i’m weird…aaah diwana you should be a therapist, all your patients would be slitting their wrists after a therapy session with you and no they are not all strangers

…

I merely pointed out the contradiction to make you think a bit deeper.

Next step was to find out the cause of it.

If I were the therapist, then first thing I would do is to get them tied up on the couch till they have understood why they are weird.

J/K

[MissTY]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

can you please explain, well i should probably be honest and say that i'm at my emotional lowest with everything that could go wrong has gone wrong in terms of love BUT i did get some incredible news recently that's been the only wonderful news so far in terms of my career. didn't want to seem like i was whining in that first post so didn't put all that in there :P :).

what I meant was that you need to feel as if you are self sufficient, you don't NEED anyone. you gotta realize that ppl come and go. None of your freinds/boyfriend are worth being so emotional over. you will keep making new ones. in the end it's you and will always be you all other people around you keep changing. hope this helps..

[el_topo]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

Nisha darling, get attached to yourself. Find your groove.

[Nisha25]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

@diwana

I merely pointed out the contradiction to make you think a bit deeper.

Next step was to find out the cause of it.

If I were the therapist, then first thing I would do is to get them tied up on the couch till they have understood why they are weird.

J/K

now who’s weird for saying the part in bold…chi kitne gande soch

@MissTY

what I meant was that you need to feel as if you are self sufficient, you don’t NEED anyone. you gotta realize that ppl come and go. None of your freinds/boyfriend are worth being so emotional over. you will keep making new ones. in the end it’s you and will always be you all other people around you keep changing. hope this helps..

@el_topo

Nisha darling, get attached to yourself. Find your groove.

thanks you all, it’s very comforting to read your comments/advice

[diwana]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

@Nisha25

now who’s weird for saying the part in bold…chi kitne gande soch

It is for their own safety. Aur Kia!

[GlobalGal]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

I found this copy/paste really helpful, try it:

1. if it's not exclusive, hang out/date other guys but don't get too involved with them meaning don't put all your expectations into one guy. and realize that if it's not exclusive he's seeing other people too.
2. make your friends & family a priority always, even if you are in an exclusive relationship. NEVER ostracize those close to you for a guy because when that guy is gone, all you'll have is yourself & those you kept around when you dated him...or you'll have nobody if you pushed your friends/family away just to spend time with him
3. keep yourself busy, keep your hobbies, do things that you enjoy, & never sit around waiting for him to call.
4. *********think of it this way, a guy is supposed to compliment your life, not be your life.

[queer]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

tell them you are a liar. works wonders. esp if it is true..

[partyslims]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

Don't change. You're cool the way you are!

[blessed2006]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

namaz parho aur apne liye dua karo ke ya allah mujhe sakoon de de. inshallah afaaqa hoga

[Nisha25]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

what’s this thread doing up ?

[blessed2006]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

^oh yeh tou tume oct main kholi thi. globalgal ne start kiya hai

[Nisha25]

Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?

@partyslims

Don’t change. You’re cool the way you are!

thanku, sweet comment

could the mods close this thread since it’s a couple months old

life1 people really do give some great advice though, it can be very therapeutic