Re: Emotional Attachment-prevention?
I am glad you got a revelation about yourself :).
There is more stuff there. But take it easy. Think about this when you’re ready:
Is getting close too people a way of ensuring that you won’t get hurt? (Would you say that’s how you saw it before the cycle of getting too close and then getting hurt began?)
If yes, the next question would be; how does getting close to people keep you from getting hurt? What do other people do that helps you feel protected from pain?
This is actually true. And as sad as that it, it is just the reality of life. If we accept it as just the way it is, without attaching the negative feeling to it, it becomes easier. However, doing that is obviously difficult.