I know this will sound horrible but I really must put this question out there.
I have some relatives who are really embarassing (i.e.: judgmental, finicky, always frowning and complaining about their life, staying tight-lipped around new people they meet, *****ing about how their daughters aren’t getting married yada yada) and I have to introduce them to my fiance and his family who have been the most loving people I have met in my life.
I’m really worried about how they will react to my relatives when they are so OPPOSITE of what my own family is like…
Has anyone been in a similar situation before? Or have you guys been introduced to an in-law family who has been this way? how did you react?
be proud of everyone in ure family. you dont see your husband warning you about anyone in his family... cuz im sure he has a few nutcases in his too.
its easier to badmouth ure own family, but u will hate it when your husbands family starts to do so, which they will if you put down ure own family infront of them.. they will think ya so she does it, why shouldnt we?
if after meeting those certain relatives, ure fiance or in laws say something bout them, then just say which family doesnt have drama?? make it an issue, they will make it an issue. play it off as something totally normal, and it wont be a big deal :)
I know this will sound horrible but I really must put this question out there.
I have some relatives who are really embarassing (i.e.: judgmental, finicky, always frowning and complaining about their life, staying tight-lipped around new people they meet, *****ing about how their daughters aren't getting married yada yada) and I have to introduce them to my fiance and his family who have been the most loving people I have met in my life.
I'm really worried about how they will react to my relatives when they are so OPPOSITE of what my own family is like....
Has anyone been in a similar situation before? Or have you guys been introduced to an in-law family who has been this way? how did you react?
My family's even worse perhaps and I do find it embaraasing, introducing my friends to them. You can't do anything about it. Infact don't even bother introducing anyone to them :)