Salaam Everyone -
So I’ve just had kid #2 (a year ago) and I’m really feeling the expenses double up.
Would love other parents to share money saving tips - not only for kids stuff but generally all around the house.
Gracias…
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what do you see the money being spent on?
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hand me downs 
http://www.dumblittleman.com/2008/01/30-easy-ways-to-save-money-and-no-you.html
http://www.40somethingmommy.com/money/how-to-save-money-on-your-kids.html
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When there are two it gives barkat in the house 
And now back to saving, just find deals online on “deals2buy.com” Have costco membership, yesterday was such a big sale on Macys 
Loved it even before thanksgiving. But anyway for clothes just go to macys on special deal days 
And if you want more cut coupons they usually come in local newspaper.
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figure out what the majority of your variable expense is going to. There are fixed expenses like house payments, that you don't really have control over and then there are variable expenses like groceries, gifts, clothes that you can control.
I found it helpful to take three months of expenses and figure out what the biggest variable expense was and the figure of changs I could make to impact it.
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Watch, compare and calculate.
Buying in bulk is a great way to save but not every single time. Many things shouldn’t be bought in bulk…you can do a break down in per unit price, figure out how much you actually use and then see if you’re really saving any money.
One of my closest friends has three kids with one on the way. Even though her husband makes a good living, drives a nice car, etc. she is discount queeeeeen! She shops a season or year ahead for the kids’ clothing. All of their desi clothes come from India on their trips. She is one of the very few people I know who still cuts and saves coupons. I don’t remember the last time I cut a coupon. Her belief is, if you’re diligent…the savings will eventually show.
Oh and the household bills are monitored by her husband very carefully. The house is always at a constant temperature, unnecessary lights are always turned off. I can never tell when they’re home if I stand outside, lol. She fills her car tank at Costco. She even buys her veggies on sale, cuts them and freezes them for future use. 
Actually her husband does that part.
I think its great.
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Re-use the bigger kids cloths for the younger one.
By on sales, like you can even buy seasons cloths on sale, for that wait a month after the season has started and they start putting them on sale.
Cut down on luxuries, I know easy said as done but things that you don't really need, you don't have to have all the fashion 'ins' sometimes you can live without certain things that you normally buy. e.g. designer bags, shoes, cloths ....
Check your bills, do you have an insurances that is not really really necessary.
For kids, you can buy these bulk pampers from toy r us.
Buy lesser toys, like make an aim to buy one piece in a month or something.
Clothing, buy cheaper brands for home and good ones for outside.
Just some points that come into my mind.
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where are the bulk of your expenses.
childcare? formula/food?
Since you have 2 boys, you can re-use old clothes, shoes, toys.
Feed the boys what you eat. No special food and diets for them
Buy in bulk things like paper towels, TP, juice boxes, snacks
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You don't upload one if you can't afford it... ye tou pata hee hota hai ke new bachay ko kya kya chaheye ho ga.
2nd, its not the baby who is giving you financial trouble, its your spending habits. You need to cut your own expenses (salon visits, pedicures, manicures, eating out, buying junk, etc., etc., etc.,) and you won't feel it when spending it on the baby. You don't shape the baby around your money, you shape your money around your baby as that's the most important thing in your life, ab ho hee gya hai tou.
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While I like my kids to wear nice clothes, I don't buy all brand name clothing...just a few special pieces. Rest of the stuff for school is the regular wash and wear stuff from target, old navy, etc.
My salon visits are every 3 months for a trim and color. I know the exact amount. Pedis and manicures only a couple times a year. I can do a great job at home.
I buy my fresh produce from a sabzi market so to speak. It's much cheaper than regular stores and fresher and more options.
I'm learning to write out a list and stick to it. Very hard to not get lured by sales. I mean, so what if something is 30% off...if I don't need it, I've still spent money eh on something I didn't need!
We don't eat out much. Kids and hubby aren't much into it.
Eliminate wastage by not buying everything in bulk. If it expires, it's money down the drain.
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Niksik,
WAH, kya baat hai.
Muniya, KUCH SEEKHO, seekh lo niksik ke experience se...chanda.
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I have always lived off using coupons ever since grade school, will never stop I believe, I have gotten more careful now after my kids, where my money is going.
Food wise you need to spend money no matter what, I check my pantry every week to see what needs to go on the 'grocery list', then I check my local grocery stores for those items on sale, and where ever I get the best deal, that's where we go.
Distinguish between needs vs want, that way you can get so much of a sense of what you actually dont need to buy and clutter your home at the same time.
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http://finance.yahoo.com/banking-budgeting/article/113770/financial-mistakes-ruin-marriage
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Great tips in here. I also look for stuff on sale and find coupons for everything. We rarely go out to eat or order something. Rarely go for movies, rent using red box. Buy my groceries at discount stores. Some things need to be bought in bulk like TP, juice, milk etc so Sam's club is good for that. We also fill our car there and its a bit cheaper than outside gas stations. I also dont worry about brand names, or try not to unless stuff is really on sale. I bought some things for my daughter from Kmart for 5 bucks and outfit not knowing waht to expect and surprisingly they are holding up extremely well. I am sooo surprised. I also always buy stuff on sale, never pay full retail price. Or check out TJMaxx, Marshalls etc for brand name stuff at lower price.
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Nice…:k:
I am myself not crazy about brands and all that.And try to buy whatever I actually need,and avoid impulsive shopping and get stuff on sales etc.I used to be coupon person,somehow that has ended.
Can I ask something relevant…??..How many of you are very particular about the groceries you buy,like milk,eggs,produce etc..??..I mean how many of you think it is essential that it be organic,or will you just go ahead and buy the regular stuff from the grocery store??
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milk and eggs i get organic. meat i get halal. everything else i'm not too picky.
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thanks everyone - some great stuff.
I find most of my money goes towards the kids
Grocery, clothes, diapers, shoes 9they outgrow really fast)
and we do re-use clothees for the little guy but I dont feel its fair for the litte guy to have nothing new or nice. Especially everyday clothes from old navy and gap that have been worn and washed into looking not so nice anymore.
I like what Reha said about calculating but whose got the time....
ANDDD somethings make more sense at Shoprite some at target and some at Costco...
It just seems not time efficient to got to three different stores. Not to mention the money I say will probably be going to gas anyway...
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^^I have never been able to shop effectively with coupons in the way that buy the beans only from the store where they sell for the cheapest. Like Muniya said, I don't think it makes sense to buy 5 items from 5 different places. Time is money. And yes, gas costs a great deal of money as well. I also cannot keep up with coupon cutting...nothing wrong with it, and I do take advantage of "rewards" coupons or a major one such as 20% off of something...but for me to run around trying to find a specific brand before a specific date seems like another project management job. :D
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I cut coupons..and for clothing i sign up for every online discount available.
I know my kids wear RL allot and I'm on the Private sales list - I'm all for discounting
:)
I think my primary problem is the groceries...I do believe in healthier foods and brand names so over all its pricier.
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Moral of the story don't have too many kids or if you're not bothered don't have any. Best cost saving technique ever.