every year with the coming of ramazan my mother starts the gana of sending eidi to my fiance in pakistan. I used to get eidi from my in-laws too but last year i asked them not to send anything since i hardly wore shalwar kameez here in 3 years and the dress paints were all with pakistani fitting, u know tight tight, which i hated wearing. so they kept piling and piling in my closet. i am sure they must be really pissed at me for it lekin kiya kar sakte hain it was a waste of thei money anyways aur u know i couldn’t even give it to somebody because it was an EIDI.
khair until last year my mother had a botique to she used to make a nice gift with some jewellery and clothes but still wanted me to check how everything was and all i did was to put some money in that package as eidi to my fiance from myself..(howe come i never got any cash…but that is a different issue.) but this year i don’t know what my mom has in her mind but still singing the same gana…
i personally never liked the idea of eidi although i would send money to her since thats the easiest thing to do. i remember i had a cousin who was engaged to a CA, btw my cousin was a guy, and he used to go shopping with his finace and she used to buy him nice stuff as eidi whatever he liked…now i need that kind of an eidi not friggin clothes man…
what do u guys think about it???
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…id wear those gotey wale kapre…have a lil purse hanging from my shoulder…n all my rishtedaar wud give me paise…
…used to be so much fun 
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