women are exempt from offering eid prayer [just like jum'a]. any namaaz baa jamaa'at is not recommended for women coz its not required of them. if i were a woman i wud gladly take take ruKhsat
theres this hadeeth which says even if a woman doesnt have to pray( their off days) they should visit the mosque atleast
i am not sure but i have heard that eid ke namaz is like the pay day.We fast through out a month and on eid God blesses us suwaab n stuff? not sure though.