Re: Eid Milad
This is similar to the ways I have seen it done.
Sometimes it is connected to a dzikr gathering and at the end they do a salat-u-salam.
The format is this:
Optional: Start with Dzikr
Recitation of Hadith on description of RasoolAllah (SAW)
Points of Sirah that elaborate on him (SAW) as a person
Reading of Barzanji Sharif
Naats and Nasheeds
Optional: Salat-o-Salam
These are done on Mondays, Thursdays throughout the year … up to five or six times and on 12 Rabi’ul Awal if possible. I guess the Ahmadi tradition of it came from Sunnis anyway …
Here is some more information about mawlid and including the mawlid: