Ego in Communication

[AnotherGuppy]

I dO that knOwing its not right

@jalebi121

i generally initiate chats if i feel like it, it doesn’t bother me to be the initiator at all. but if i noticed that i was the sole initiator of chats, i would take it as a sign that the person is not really interested in my chatting. So I would stop talking to the person unless they initiated. So it’s not an ego thing, it’s just that I don’t want to impose myself on a person.

Honestly I would rather talk with someone who has a mutual interest in talking with me, not someone who thinks of a conversation as a ‘battle’ of who started it first. For me at least, it is difficult to sustain a close friendship with a person like this.

but jalaibi totally agree with u…

aisey laugon k saath dOsti kertay waqt sOchna chahiey