Effort into a Relationship

Lifestyle Relationships
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What happens when one partner is putting in all the effort - initiates conversations, initiates plans for activities, etc, and the other is just really passive and doesn’t even TRY.

But then says, oh, I would like to marry you?

:rolleyes:

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ahem ahem… so what’s the story? :wwnn:

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Re: Effort into a Relationship

I would say you talk too much. I ain't marrying you!

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ahem…so u r putting the efforts of he is ? :faizy:

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off the topic question...wat kind of a relation shud u have with ur to-be-inlaws?his sisters used to text me every 2-3 weeks,but man!now since the wedding dates have been finalized they havent texted me for a month or so..shud i be worried that somethings wrong?
n yep,i have texted them few times before that,but shudnt they put in some effort!

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dont u put efforts into a relationship after the marriage?

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If one "partner" is putting in all the work in the relationship ... and the other is doing nothing ..and this is BEFORE marriage?!?! Um I would say that this isnt really a "partnership" and a bad sign that things are already like this.

The person putting in all the work should get out of it and say no to the marriage proposal. Not worth it.

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LOL!!!

tear

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I figured as much.

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this relationship better be in real life :mad:

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Re: Effort into a Relationship

its a general question

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One sided relationships never work and if the person would want to marry, one has to ask the question, why do you want to marry me?

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Conflicts arise when both try and put in too much effort. Its better for one to be passive while other organizes the 'joint life'.