What happens when one partner is putting in all the effort - initiates conversations, initiates plans for activities, etc, and the other is just really passive and doesn’t even TRY.
But then says, oh, I would like to marry you?
ahem ahem… so what’s the story? 
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I would say you talk too much. I ain’t marrying you!
ahem…so u r putting the efforts of he is ? 
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off the topic question…wat kind of a relation shud u have with ur to-be-inlaws?his sisters used to text me every 2-3 weeks,but man!now since the wedding dates have been finalized they havent texted me for a month or so..shud i be worried that somethings wrong?
n yep,i have texted them few times before that,but shudnt they put in some effort!
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dont u put efforts into a relationship after the marriage?
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If one “partner” is putting in all the work in the relationship … and the other is doing nothing ..and this is BEFORE marriage!!! Um I would say that this isnt really a “partnership” and a bad sign that things are already like this.
The person putting in all the work should get out of it and say no to the marriage proposal. Not worth it.
LOL!!!
tear
I figured as much.
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this relationship better be in real life 
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its a general question
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One sided relationships never work and if the person would want to marry, one has to ask the question, why do you want to marry me?
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Conflicts arise when both try and put in too much effort. Its better for one to be passive while other organizes the ‘joint life’.