Re: Eating sleeping habits of one year old....
My boys doc told me the same thing, like you're doing permanent damage to a child if you let them sleep in mom and dads bed. The docs never had a satisfactory answer for me when I ask why are you so against this. So I finally just told the doc that they sleep in their own bed just to shut 'em up. If you, your hubby and your child like your sleeping arrangements then dont change them!
I can see their point about giving up the bottle though. Its bad for little teeth to drink at night, milk or juice can pool in their mouth and actually cause tooth rot. Its also important for oral-motor development that they learn to drink from straw and cup. My middle son was so very attached to his bottle. We had such a tough time getting him to give it up. We ended up giving him cups and straws and one bottle a day - and this was until he was almost 3 lol! And I sincerely doubt that he's damaged for life over it!
:)
Moms know whats best for their kids...docs forget this sometimes.