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wouldnt mind at all, would defo do it, it is sunnah and increase the love between the people who share food from the same plate/glass, in fact after my nikkah when my hubby came over to my house he had some coca cola and left a few sips in his glass, after he went i got his glass and finished it off just because i knew that it increases the love between 2 people :D
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Im very particular and i dont do sharing my glass with NO ONE
Hubby ho chahay ammi ho
I got put off after i used to share glass and bottles and i saw bits of crisp floating around in coke, after one friend had taken a sip
Put me off for life
So NO NO NO NO NO NO
I dont like sharing my food…get right aggressive
And i dont mind sharing plates, as long as he got his own food and not pinching mine
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I don't mind at all.
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I never shared a glass or plate with anyone before, but I'm totally comfortable sharing it with him. And now that I'm used to it, I don't mind sharing with the family either. :D
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zaroor aap ne ye wala gana dekha hoga
Coca cola aisey hi nahi koi peeta 
Ye ishq hai kia
kis ko pata
ye ishq hai kia
sab ko pata
ye prem nagar anjaan dagar
sawan gagar ka sab ko pata
ye dard hai yaa dardoon ki dawa
yeh koi sanam yaa aap khudaaaaaa
Tum ne ishq ka naam suna hai … hum ne ishq kia hai …
Anyway seriously she is right :k: it is a sunnah to eat and drink together they may be fiends , family or anyone. Plus there is no concept of *jhota *(left over) in islam or in our culture. eating left over is also a sunnah and it prescribed not to waste any food. Husband and wife do lots of stuff together eating together is very basic thing.
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don't have any problems sharing dishes, etc.
but the toothbrush...ummmm.....no thank you. I have a mind block in that way.
reminds me of a funny story....
FIL and hubby were having dinner...I was serving. They were almost finished their food by the time that I grabbed a plate for myself and came to the table. MIL had eaten previously and was seated nearby.
FIL looks at my clean plate and says, "Biwi ko shohar kay khanay ka intezar karna chahiyay aur jab woh kha chukay tau uss ki plate main khana chahiyay." I stopped to think for a moment....was he just being funny......was he trying to prevent another soiled plate.....was he serious?
Suddenly I heard a snort from MIL. She laughed at his comment. Apparently there was some inside joke. MIL would never touch a soiled dish, glass, spoon....not from her husband, not from her kids, not from anyone!
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husband and wife share all their bacterias and viruses through kissing and more ....
so sharing plates, glass or tooth brush isn't a big deal!
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if she cooked it then they should eat in same plate jk
u should alwayz eat in da same plate =)
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there was this pakistani family living near my parents house. the son was living with his mother and grandmother (his father had passed away yrs ago) and he had just gotten married. they invited me, my mom and sis over for tea.
well after the son`s wife drank her tea, he took her cup and made tea for himself in the same cup. he even drank from the same place where her lipstick marks were and his mother and grandmother were proudly saying that 'look our son loves his wife so much, he is always looking for a cup or plate that she has used'.
and these were like really religious women who wouldn't even go grocery shopping cuz non mehram males are there.
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I don't mind it at all.
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hehehe I used to be very particular about my plates, glass, and spoon but I really didnt mind sharing it with hubby and not to mention he always had to eat my leftover because I would be "full" after just a few bites and he will have to finish the food left in the plate!!
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These are hypochondric thoughts :D
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why would u mind?
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i wouldn't like if anyone even take an itsy bitsy share of my food from my plate (even if it would be my hubby) and i would be totally grossed out if he drank from the same glass (not that i care about the germs or anything). I m just build that way, meaning i cant share my food or drink in the same dish. (hate the poking of the fork in the same plate period)
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There is nothing wrong with a husband/wife sharing the same plates/cups. I think it should be used ‘pyar barhaane ke liye’. Although this is not the only way to increase your love, I would certainly encourage husband/wife to share the same plate/cup.
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What is so confusing about it, she just doesn’t like it and there is nothing wrong with it.
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I agree. When you have cupboards full of plates and dishes, why share? I can't see myself doing it in the future.
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Okay, I think you should avoid all sorts of physical contact with your husband then. Why be afraid of sharing plates etc. You share bigger things with your spouse and sharing plates and spoons makes you feel bad......
Wah wah, Mehnaz ji, yeh bhi theek hai ......