Re: EARS!!!
well don't start poking things in there straight after 3 days again, wait at least a week.
lobe stretching is so common now, there is loads of info about it on the net. your basic holes are probably about 20 gauge (0.8mm), so can either do what sumo said and just wear big earrings for a while (try and find two pairs, one really big backed ones and ones a bit smaller), use the smaller ones to stretch for about a week (until they are comfortable and go in easy) and then move onto the really big ones.
but if you can't walk around with those kinda earrings on all day, just buy some 18 gauge (1mm) backed stud earrings and start wearing them, after about a week the holes should be bigger. see if your wedding earrings fit comfortably now. if not, you may need to go to further to 16 gauge (1.2mm).
don't wear anything at night!