earnings and husbands

[queen_24]

Re: earnings and husbands

@thedoer

She ask us both when she calls us. My husband tells her everything even what happens in our bedroom. She ask him about stuff and he answer even if I tell him not to tell her about our private life but he does tell her because he says he can’t lie to her if she ask. I will never give give in to pressure but it will create an argument and put a strain in our relationship and I don’t want that.

I read your all posts in this thread and after getting an idea of how your husband and inlaws sound, I think its better for you that you DONT reveal on them about the property or savings your hold at least at the moment.

Even when you build a strong relationship and you finally are ready to disclose it, I would suggest, dont tell him that you have been owning these properties or savings since the first day of marriage, this could become a reason of fights between you two and create unnecessary trust issues.
In future, just disclose him like, my parents have JUST gifted me the property or maybe wait for some occasion like baby birth or anything… and tell him that its a gift from my parents… but telling him that you actually owned it for a long time and revealing it to him now, would hurt him too as well as can create fuss too!!