Regarding the topic, I am 27 and still not married and sometimes I become too depressed, not knowing what future holds. I was in love with someone and I knew there was no future and I have cut my ties now.
However, I would say, you are sounding as if you are blaming Allah for not finding a good match. Nowhere Allah has promised everyone will find a person as soon as they are out of teens. Its preferred to get married early but there is no sawab etc. Its only said becos people can be very unpredictable, nas was kaat lena wagera..
Allah dint promise but Allah did say marry early and its a sunnat too … i read some where husbnad wife ka saath time guzara.. meaning getting intimate nafal namazo se behtar he … marriage protects us from doing haram but phr Allah ne kismet me shaadi der se likhi he tu is me bande ka kya kasoor??
its not about getting older … its about what i want which is totally halal and Ii m trying my best but still Allah blocked all ways and then HE encourages us to marry asap too …
You have not given any details of your situation but keep blaming Allah for it. So unsure about your query.. you sound very naive duck. But I wish youbest of luck.
what “details” u want to know miss redvelvet ??? u got bored with ur tempe5t nick that u decided to make new one ???
what u want to do with details??? Bolo ???
I m young and i want to get married as thats the only halal way and i am trying my best to find a spouse but cant but if Allah wants HE can but He is not helping me… isnt that enough detail for u???
You need help mate.. Stop blaming Allah, thats all I said. I have no clue what you are on about, I was asking your age and whether you have anybody in mind and just having issues convincing your parents or having rejection from a rishta. But I dont think I want to know this information, you sound gullible and not looking for advice clearly, just ranting about life.. I get it. Carry on your jolly way..
P.S. You are not ready for marriage. Honestly. Late marriage is a blessing for some people because they might find themselves out of their depth after marriage. Get some more life experience, you will be better off that way. Don?t be so desperato.
u are no one say whether i am ready for marriage or not… if u are old that doesnt mean u start promoting late marriages and say its a “blessing” … we all know Islam said to marry asap which is actually a blessing… what u said is just ur opinion… next time keep it to urself … i like things to be done in a halal way and i am a girl and i get those feelings if some girls dont get those feelings then I dnt know what they are… if thats desperate to u then be it … u get more life experience and keep gathering that experience … IT WILL BE A BLESSING FOR YOU !!
so are u trying to say other replies are not serious ??? i really do think others have contributed way seriously and in a way one should have … learn something as u are so into gathering life experiences…
Inshallah you will get married asap. The feelings are indeed natural and if you are getting it confirms you are so ready for marriage. Allah knows you are in need of a man who can fulfill your desires. Allah knows and we know it too now because you have made it clear throughout this thread.
i am not married so I feel what it feels like, but I genuinely feel you are being hormonal at the moment.
aur opinion nahi chahiye to forum pe post kyun kiya tha behen? Lol I actually came here to share my story too and discuss but after your replies it became very clear that you have 2 brain cells. Now I get why you are labelling me with a cake..
opinion chahiye tha behan par tumhara nahi…bakiyo ne de diya aur mene le liya … apne paas rakho tum apna opinion BEHAN … u are the one who is saying i am a naive duck, portraying me immature and i am not ready for marroage and what not … u are no one to say that .. and now u know i am being hormonal too… it seems like u know me way better than i do myself… u started ridiculing but couldnt take it when same happened to u … u are not worth my time too hunnn …