Early Age

[Miss_Noland]

@diwana

This person ‘A’ was always was ‘out there’ and not willing to accept the normal culture where he was brought up. Always questioned religion and many other social ‘norms’.

For hours he would argue his points and ‘A’ and ‘B’ would stay late night discussing many intricate details of life in general including philosophy, religion, politics, relationship etc. in warm long summer nights or cold short winter nights.

‘A’ was wild in his mind but shy when it came to women and ‘B’ was controlled, but since ‘B’ was clear minded he had no problem making many females good friends.

‘B’ compared to his own views, understood point of views of ‘A’ but did not agree with wild, free, irreligious ideas.

‘A’ married to three women (divorced two), has three children . One from first marriage and still not happy despite materially and finacially very stable.

‘B’ married only once, has four children and still happy and satisfied but materially and financially still struggling and working hard.

Question:

**1- Does your destiny depend what you do and think at early age? **

2- Does too much thinking and curiosity in life make you feel unsatisfied inside on long-term basis?

1. No, people change as they age. There are two different approaches to that. a) Destiny has been written b) You make your own destiny. Now it depends on what you believe. If a kid grows up to believe that he will write his own destiny than he will most likely turn out to be person “A” you described. If a child grows up to believe that his destiny has already been written, he will find satisfaction in what he can and accept everything the way it is and will eventually become person “B” you have described above.

2. Yes, curiosity killed the cat and I will probably die like that too.. Damn it!