Re: During the rishta process…
Well, with the blatant lying that many people do these days and lack of ethical and moral values .. its better to be safe then sorry, by investigating a potential rishta to one’s satisfaction. Whether the other person feels like a bakra, depends on how much they are hiding and lying ..
I know that when my father is looking for proposals for my sister, he is as open as possible about providing any kind of information that other party requires and in return my father expects the other party to remain open in terms of information provision …
People will only feel their privacy attacked if they are hiding things .. and its better to catch such people at the rishta process rather then regretting later after marriage. Thats what arrange marriage is all about .. stranger families meet and both should have equal rights to investigate to their satisfaction.