Dupatta ON or OFF?

yes, consider us mods the “arbiters of niceness” around Weddings and behave. if you don’t or can’t, then we’ll deal with it accordingly- but you already know this.
as for dictating your thoughts, feelings and especially opinions, i have zero interest in that- i’m just interested in making sure they’re expressed ***politely ***and since you’ve said you appreciate my suggestion, you shouldn’t have any problems in following through on it, should you? please and thanks.