Re: dubatta!
oh man, i SO agree with that!!! my shaadi dupatta was wayyy too heavy too. just make sure your hair is a solid beehive, i.e. severely backcombed and with a ton of hairspray otherwise your dupatta will crush it and make it look really flat. im sure whomever you approach for your hair and makeup will know the drill once they see the dupatta :)
so what colour is your outfit? whats it look like? is it a gharara or a sharara or what? oooh, im excited for you!