Saalam Guys,
Although humdullilah my relationship is going very well, however it has its ups and downs- I have prayed and prayed to God, do you guys know any dua's that we can read in the time of hardships?
Thanks.
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I know I'll get a lot of hate for this message...but really, do you need to know specific purpose-made Dua's to fully appease a perfect, most-merciful God?
Here are some duas.
qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=1908&CATE=10
duas.org/1015.html
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I'd say ease up on the duas and focus more on communications and relationship-building activities. Duas cant hurt but on their own, I'd not be confident that bad times will end. Bad times end with hard work and cooperation.
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surah e tehreef twice
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surah fateh and also i read manzil
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There is an ayah in Surat-Al Baqrah which I will translate in urdu: "pareshani (ya museebat) ke waqt sabr aur namaaz se madad lo"
So what advice can be better than that Allah himself tells us.
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^ very true...bt some ppl feel depressed or bad abt certain things ususally depends on their moods so n they recite the holy versus to make them feel better and also the make the situation or circumstances better.
another thing prayer / namaz is also dua.. in other words we pray to god. and a specific dua would be more beneficial (i think so)
this is a very good link to some supplications directly from the Qur’an that can/should be recited daily
I know I'll get a lot of hate for this message...but really, do you need to know specific purpose-made Dua's to fully appease a perfect, most-merciful God?
That too when we dont even understand the meaning of ready made dua!
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^ you can always read the translation.
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This one is for husbands ONLY .
**Jal tu Jallal tu . . . ayi bala ko taal tu **
:p
What you need, dear lady, is murshid's dua plus 2 kalay bakray, and there is a chilla you can do standing on one foot for 20 nights.
Or perhaps you could take the following advice which makes a lot more practical sense:
I'd say ease up on the duas and focus more on communications and relationship-building activities. Duas cant hurt but on their own, I'd not be confident that bad times will end. Bad times end with hard work and cooperation.
This one is for husbands ONLY .
**Jal tu Jallal tu . . . ayi bala ko taal tu **
:p
LOL. Okay that's hilaaaaaaaaaarious!!!!!!!!!!!
When I read that, an image of Shanta Bai's (from Kal Ho Na Ho) horrified expression flashes before my eyes.
What you need, dear lady, is murshid's dua plus 2 kalay bakray, and there is a chilla you can do standing on one foot for 20 nights.
Or perhaps you could take the following advice which makes a lot more practical sense:
J you forgot dress code . ahum .
LOL! How could I?! Feel free to ‘auto-complete’ Nami 
I'd say ease up on the duas and focus more on communications and relationship-building activities. Duas cant hurt but on their own, I'd not be confident that bad times will end. Bad times end with hard work and cooperation.
Duaa and Dawaa (medicine) together leads to cure/success.
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For begins you could say ''Alhamdolillah'' what you already have is a blessing .. and secondly you could say Allah Alimighty rather than god .. thirdly pray 5 times a day and after every namaz do the following dua ..''rabbana aatina fiddunya hasanatan wa fil aakhirati hasanatan wa qinaa azaab annar'' ..and do halal kamaaei and work on the communication skills.
^ you can always read the translation.
Anyone hardly does. They read dua's that are custom made for particular purposes. The intensity of their belief in the dua might turn things there way. Otherwise, what exactly do they do? Enchant something they dont even understand.