I think you are very disconnected from ground realities, you should get out more often… Here is a link to ground realities right from the horses mouth.
Excerpt below… a little dated but nothing has changed
LONDON – The Taliban now holds a permanent presence in 72% of Afghanistan, up from 54% a year ago, according to a report released today by the International Council on Security and Development (ICOS), an international policy think tank.
Taliban’s permanent presence in the country has increased by a startling 18%, according to ICOS research on the ground in Afghanistan.
The sooner one comprehends the fact that they Pashtun/Taliban are here to stay the sooner there will be some resolution in sight and this is exactly what US is doing now by talking to the same Taliban it once branded terrorist.