Actually, from what I recall of the snippets I heard from the conversation it went something like this:
Older girl: "He told me, "You do realize that whatever you tell me to do, I'll do. I'm your slave" " I thought that was sooooo cute, so I let him off the hook"
Younger girl: "Wait, do you think he was just trying to get you off his back?"
Older girl: "Yeah, I think it was. George is a smart guy, you know. He wouldn't say something so stupid so easily. I'm sure that was his motive"
Younger girl: "You gotta make them fear you, otherwise, they get to comfortable..."
Its pretty easy to get back at girls who want to keep a guy "afraid".
No food, really, there are a lot of fine restaurants in town with a lot of fine looking eye candy who just might like a company of single man.
You say no sex, well....I have been married too long to make any comment about that. :)
If only my husband was on a remote control...or the threat of no sex or food would actually work....arghhhhhhhhhhh...
I have found the best way to get a guy to do what you want...is to tell him what you want and what you think is best...and then use the phrase but you do whatever you think is right..
they will huff and puff in true MAN FASHION but in the end they do what you want...the trick though is to not do the whole I told you so routine...
^ haha! you are a smart girl. Most women don't understand how much they can manipulate men if they use the right approach.
In your face approach never works...egoistic women always fail in what they want.
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Older girl: "He told me, "You do realize that whatever you tell me to do, I'll do. I'm your slave" " I thought that was sooooo cute, so I let him off the hook".
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This sounds marginally like something a guy in BDSM would do.
Either the woman is naive or she doesn't like to admit that her boyfriend might harbour some bondage fantasies for her.
ravage - all kidding aside. My husband has told me that crying is the ultimate weapon of a woman. He says that no matter what is going on or how he feels, when a woman is crying, he'll do anything to stop it.
Of course, this is filed away for the future (just kidding) :D never in the whole time I have known him have I cried about something he has done. I cried once when my father passed away and he was a mess, kept offering me tea. I think it's sweet in a way.
i wasnt kidding. this is fact ladies. i do not know of any verifiable instances of men who do not immediately.. or at worst eventually..crumble at the sight of a lady crying except who arent in the league of caligula or hitler or stalin. and if they're in that league i dont think u wanna stick to them anyway.
we all have this weakness. if it isnt working its because you havent cried long enough. eventually he will give in or there is a good chance that he will go on to engineer a massive genocide.
That’s how you deal with most people really, the " I told you so" kills any bond…
As for the fear thing, that’s just very manipulative, though most men like a good challenge, but that’s in order to gain your favour, not worrying about whether you’ll be around to challenge them.
