The girls at work were talking about their boyfriends, and I heard one of them say something like …
“You have to keep him in fear. If he’s not in fear, he gets too secure, and then he wont ever listen to you”
Ladies, do you agree?
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Ack, NO, lol, I wouldn't want the same treatment, got to give what you want to recieve.
The person who said that will probably be insecure and lonely all her life, even if she is with someone.
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I have to agree with minah_pa, relationships on fear usually end .. its just a matter of time.
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haha and how old were these girls?
whats the point in playing games... the only way to keep someone is to treat them the way you'd like to be treated (if not better) and to love them...
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LOL
I know, I know, you were expecting agreement perhaps and another men bashing thread, lol
Too tired, now if it was yesterday..............
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its a common case only girls with insecurities will be doing this... the only result these insecure girls get is their guys leaving them fast....
BTW ...PCG do u agree or disagree with it?
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I don't know about fear, but I do think you have to keep a guy on his toes.
Depends on the guy. For some INSECURE guys, I think fear is what keeps them on their toes.
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hmmmz.. keep them on their toes.. how though? come on PCG.. i need all the advice i can get... and im serious
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never knew pigs had toes 
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PCG - who wants an insecure guy?? Too much upkeep..........
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^ yeah... its no fun.. a stable and secure person is the way to go. At least you got someone to lean on
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Keep him in fear for what? That you'll dump him and move on or that you're still considering others for marriage?
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oh no, i think she was talking more along the lines of making him think that if he does the wrong thing that you'll be really pissed at him, and you'll cut the sex/affection.
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^ haha!
In that case I agree with your friend.
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I have to say - why punish yourself for something he does??? Just don't feed him, it'll mean more and really hit home.
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^^ how cruel
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yes, even a threat of not feeding a guy can put him on the right track :D
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some guys can cook 2 
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not if the microwave is hidden