when we see dreams.... like dreams when doing istikhara.................... or just praying before going to sleep n asking something from Allah........ should we rely on the feeling we get while seeing that dream ..... or should we relate the answer in dream not to the feeling but to the question u have asked?....... coz sometimes feeling u get is different from the question u asked .......
Depends. There's no clear cut answer to that.
First, lets understand the types of Istekharas. The most common type of Istekhara is where the person seeks Allah's help and blessings in a task. This is the type which Rasool Allah (peace be upon him and his family) used to teach his companions - to seek Allah's blessings in a task and then go about executing that task.
Second type is where the person is seeking divine guidance before deciding which way to go. A thing to understand is that not everyone will be able to get guidance through this method. It first & foremost depends on person's level of piety, state of heart & mind and how much clean conscience the person is to be able to receive and understand divine messages. Some may receive a direct clear yes/no answer, some may get indirect signals or gestures in dreams to help them decide the matter but most others get confused with random dreams and think they're telling them something. Another important thing to understand is that this kind of Istekhara must only be performed as the ultimate last resort after exhausting all other worldly resources and putting in the best possible personal efforts. Otherwise the person ends up blaming the failed results of their decisions on Istekhara.
So I'm no expert on this topic but this is what I know. If you are doing Istekhara, you stop thinking about what you actually want or whatever and hope to get a sign in dream. If you get a dream, yes you try to make sense of it as per what you asked. Now say you cant relate it to what you asked for. See if you can determine whether what you have seen is YES or NO, like right or wrong just like white or black colors.
BUT, if you dont get anything, then you have to use your intuition or whichever option you preferred.
lets say i am asking Allah ke meri yeh job chootay gi ya nahi.... which i want ke choot jaye.........in my dream i see a figure 91.92% .... while seeing this dream i felt ke lagi rahe gi .... which i dont want n it made me sad too during my dream........ n i didnt even ask this mene tu chootay gi ya nahi yeh poocha tha ..... lagi rahegi ye nahi...
if i go by what i asked Allah before going to sleep then it means 91% chances ke choot jayegi ......... but if i go by the feeling i had during that dream then its like 91% chances he lagi rahe gi .....
i dont know what to believe coz i asked something else but felt opposite while seeing the dream .....
do estikhara with full faith and clean heart and insAllah you will get the guidance you seek.
First time saw someone praying hard for job chooting. People always istikhara karing for job miling.
Just resign na
Velvy, itni mushkil kyon ho yar?
Its tricky to do proper tabeer of dreams. You needs alim for that. You should see a result in your real life. If something is not good then wont happen. It its good you will get and will be easy.
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Its tricky to do proper tabeer of dreams. You needs alim for that. You should see a result in your real life. If something is not good then wont happen. It its good you will get and will be easy.
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In my experience, the dreams that I have seen after doing Istikhara have usually aligned with the real-life outcome and turn of events. Since dreams can be difficult to decode, I also look at how events unfold. If a matter is beneficial for you, then it will be facilitated. If it isn?t, you will be kept away from it.
[quote=““Meri Ghazal””]
Its tricky to do proper tabeer of dreams. You needs alim for that. You should see a result in your real life. If something is not good then wont happen. It its good you will get and will be easy.
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hmmm…ok… then lets see what happens … coz sometimes its just fear in our head that becomes our feeling during seeing that dream … may be the feeling i had wasnt real but just my fear …