Double Standards

[Aukhan]

Re: Double Standards

@GlobalGal

I’m just trying to think, since i didn’t grow up thinking in such a way where there are different rules for desi men and different ones for women, i’m going to have a really tiny pool of desi men to choose from that I would be compatible with where he has close to a similar or balanced way of thinking. There are so many desi men that think like this or atleast the ones i’ve come across tend to have this view.

Good stick to your beliefs. “The fornicator/adulterer shall not marry any but a fornicatress or idolatress”.

About double standards well i believe it’s the matter of priority, virginity is not the most important thing for girls when it comes to marriage, their prime focus is on material aspects most of the time and they are willing to let go of the past if the guy fits their requirement list. Women have made this thing acceptable by accepting these type of man, where as a man thinks differently virginity matters to most of them whether they are themselves virgin or not.

It’s a matter of pride too and yeah like your friend said the comparison thing really makes them insecure.