Re: Double minded
I think the families need to meet face to face, the parents can then take care of everything on their own. Whatever they need to discuss or investigate about each other's families can happen then and you two don't even have to be a part of it. Have a talk with your dad or mom and ask them to call and invite the guy's family over. I don't think an engagement should be done without even two families atleast meeting each other once. You don't want your family or his to be in for any kind of surprises later.