Hey everyone, i need some advice, i cant talk to my family at this time about this. Here is the situation and i would really appreciate if you guys tell me what you think. I am going to get engaged in a couple of months to a guy whos in another state, its by our choice we are getting engaged. his family has never met my family & vice versa, all conversations have taken place over phone but we have been friends for over 4 yrs, the thing is with the engagement coming up i should be feeling happy but its an anxious feeling. my family is different from his, he is a great guy with a lot of potential but his family is very different from mine....we are starting to have arguments every time we talk on the phone, its over things like i want him to send pics of his entire family to mine so others can see, plus i ask questions like his family entire last name, where they are from (this info isnt for me but its for family members who ask...) he gets extremely mad and says that he hates the whole system where its the utmost importance of where the family is from.... my family has told my extended family & friends that there will be an engagement in a few months....should i still go ahead with it or not?
Do what YOU feel is best for you. In a marriage both parties need to compromise, but that does not mean you giving in to all of his views. Make sure he understands that.