How does it work , ?
How do we know its being equally shared ,? Puray puray insaaf say, half & half?
No cheating ! But still the soul feels like defeated, cheated and violated.
Aur kiya agar aisa hoya bhi hai, to kiya hum sab bhool ker phir say ‘mohabbat’
ker saktay hain , kiya woh mohabbat he hogi,yaan jahanum ,
I think it would be a compromise of interests and soul
Go ahead ! fire away
Free cookies and flooding encouraged,
is duniya main ab kuch hi log reh gaye hain jo without any return aik dosre ko pasand karte hain aur baki sab dikhawa aur paise ki lalach hai kuch hi hain sachi mohabbat karne wale woh bhi bechare nakaam reh jate hain
haan dil ak martaba say zeeyada bee mohabat kar sakta hay.. (which i always incourage my friends to do)
cause we shouldnt lose hope in first try.. havent u heard the story of the ant trying again and again aur akhar manzil tak pohanch jata hay.. so dear.. life is like this.. u have to take risks sometimes :)
When you fall in love, don’t your partner share this ultimate feeling of
Being in love with you?
Don’t you feel left out when you giveth all and taketh nothing
desi_angal , aik baat bataoo zera,
Jab mohabat aik say hoti hai,aur app us ko aapni zindagi kay bohat qeemati lamhay
bhi daitay ho,aur jo mohabat jawab mai milay woh aisi ho kay lagay , jitna pay-check mota hoga utni he mohabat milay gi, yeh baiwafai aur dhoka nahi hai kia,? , kia yeh lalach mohabat berha sakti hai,
Aik kharab tajerbay kai baad ,
Phir insaan agay kaisay berhay , aur dobara mohabat jaisi bakwas cheez say sir khupaye,aisa koi keun keray,?
Life revolves around meterialistic interests.
Girls seek better and concrete future and the Guys look for combination of glamour, great looks and a household masterminded hand.
Where do you fit mohabat in all this setup?
Ko log sachi muhabbat karte hai..wo pase ki parwa nehi karte…they can be poor yet happy..cuz their love keeps them together and gives them the happiness that materialistic things cant… aghar pyar ke batle mein…koi materialistic cheeze maange..to wo sacha pyar nehi hosakta…and if someone is in that situation..where they have to give someone materialistic things..in order to receive love in return..then maybe they should reconsider their relationship with that person..cuz most likely..wo pyar jhoota hai (my opinion at least)
^ to phir , yeh Payaar ka pehla dhoka hoya jo kay shadi ki hud say bhi agay ja chuka ho,
in that case what ego or face the so called ‘Mohabat’ is left with to endorse it self into another mind with its presence the second time around ( fall in LOVE with another person).
Why do we say then ;
Mohabat aik say hoti hai hazaroun say nahi. Chandani chand say hoti hai sitaroun say nahi
If we translate 'Mohabat’ with ‘Ishq’ and then recall the thousand upon thousand of sufiana kalam to understand how ‘Ishq’ andha hota hai,‘Ishq is blind’
I’m sure they talk about only one ‘Ishq’ for all and with one person only.
So what are the second feelings then, :elmo:
Once your 1st love fails, the 2nd one is only a body and soul compromise and not true love,are we fair in saying this?
hmmmmmm.. jahaan takk hamaari (bali umar :p) learnings-of-life kahti hain.. lota gawaah hay.. after 4 years of relationship, and 5 years of downtime, talluqqat ustawaar ho chuke hain.. jaisay kabhi kuch HUA hee nahi ..
now in the sense of love though.. but yeah, memories are there, hansna hansaana chalta rahta hay.. DILSE to bhula chuke hain ke inhi khatoon nay lota ghayib kar diya tha hamaara.. jiski waja say aajtakk khuwaar hotay rahtay hain (in ULTIMATE search of my gumshuda-lota) ;)
mohabbat/hazaaron say yaad aaya.. khatoon ki choti behain BARI laadli theen.. jab khatoon say sath choota to unsay nahi choota.. wo bar bar yahi kahti theen ke pahlay aap SIRF baji ke peechay diwaanay rahtay thay, hamaaray aur doston ke liyay time nahi hota tha.. abb ITNA time daitay hain ke samajh nahi aata ke itna pyar kaisay handle karain (true words btw) ...
to pyar to sigma notation ki tarah barhta chala giya.. itna ke handling main mistakes ho gayeen .. .. aur phir..
hmmm,yeh to qibla durast fermaya app nay , agar lottay ko puray ghar ka aik wajoud samjh lain to phir waqai mera lota to arsa hoya kab ka lut chucka,
bai-painda hoya,zalimoun nay akhri shakal bhi nahi daikhnay di,is kader andhera hoya kay dil kiya pathar bhi kaalay per gaye,
ab ‘mohabat’ naam say kuch yadain wabista hain,umeedain nahi !
Theek hai,naye rishtay nattay appni jaga,lekin ‘Mohabat’ aur ‘Ishq’ ko baazar
mai so so baar nahi baicha ja sakta, es leye , naye rishtoun ko koi aur naam
diya jana chaye, :elmo:
Wingman ! ,why you up so late dude?,
Me tou just burning the midnight oil,bro
lekin only tonight,
^ nahhhh,,, what ever happened to the good old chuppa chuppi,,,,carving names,,,and making excuses,,no cell phones,,,sigh just pure viision and touch,,,,happens once only right ? :D