Meri bahan ki dost jo bazahir to bohat achchi bohat naik aur shareef nazar ateen theen jaisi kaay meri bahan hai aur dosti kafi saalon tuk rahi.
Dosti parosi honay ki wajah say aur un kay parents na honay ki wajah say huwi.
Dosti ki wajah kuch kuch meri bahan ko samajh aai thi kay unki umr kafi ho gai thi aur shadi naheen huwi aur wo meray bhaion say shadi kay liaay kia tha jo baad main wo direct phone karnay lageen meray bhaion kay kay hamari bahnon say shadi kar lo. Jub kay meri bahan nain unhain mana kia tha bhai ko phone naheen karna laikin wo karti raheen aur bhai bohat ghusa karta tha bahan pay tumhari dost kioon phone karteen hain. Bahan nain bata dia tha apni doston ko kay bhai bohat ghussa karta hai aap kay phone karnay pay. Do saal pehlay ki baat hai jub phone karna shuru kia jubkay dosti 16 saal purani hai.
Last year jub meri bahan gai to un logon nain kahan hamaray yahan rahain jaisa kay dostain janti theen kay bahan ka koi naheen hai Pakistan main jo rishtaydaar hain wo sub na honay kay barabar hain.
Jub unkay yahan bahan rah rahi thi unko jub pata chala kay bahan un say bhaion ki shadi naheen karay gi to phir to unka rung hi badal gia. Aur unhon nain asleeat dikha di. Us say pehlay bhi jo batain jis say chupanay bahan kehti thi wo us kay samnay hai bahanay bahanay say zikr kar deti theen.
Kuch arsay pehlay to bahan kay khilaaf hamaray walid ko bhi charha rahi theen jo kay walid nain bataya. Jub kay dost jaanti theen kay walid kaisay hain aur kis tarha ka sulook kartay hain buchchon kay saath.
Ub is soorat main baqi sub bhai bahan kah rahay hain us say dosti chor do aur nai dost bana lo. Aik waqt main jub bahan ko shadded help ki zaroort thi to us dost nain madad ki thi. Kia dosti khatm kar deni chahyay ya barqarar rakhna chahyay ya limited kar dena chahyay.
They were also trying to catch eye contact to my sisters husband all the time when he visited in front of my sister. Kafi age ho gai hai unki bahan say kaafi bari hain. They surely are become desparete unmarried.
Apnay qeemti mashwaron say nawaz kar shukria ka mauqa dain.
I would also love to hear from Submission to peach, psyah, Niksik and Mirch bhai especially.
They are not friends anymore. All you can do is help them out in future if they need any kind of help. So yes limit this to casual encounters.
Thanks for the advice
My sister asked them did she said that to my father she said not this but other thing that is about my family matter. She said things against my sister. My sister texted them and told them what you talk like my dushman and having friendship with my dushmans that is not good and then she revealed them that I didn't say anything as I knew that things about you guys which you didn't tell me and which was.
Un logon nain apni bhabhi ko talaq dilwai thi aur us ki aik buchchi bhi hai. They were so amazed that for that long period they hid that from my sister. Thay only told my sister that his brother had marriage and gave divorce to his wife and didn't tell about the girl.
One of my relative met my sister and saw her with them and told my sister "Tum in logon kay saath ho tumhain pata hai yay loag kitni budmaash hain apni bhabhi ko talaq dilwaya hai aur uski aik buchchi bhi hai" My sister asked how did you know she said She lived in my building everyone knows.
For those years my sister did tell her that she knows about them and didn't ask a single question that it's their personal matter.
Not a single relative of her come to meet them. Only three sister and brother live togather.
My sister stoped contacting them but on baqraid she called and on other ocassion she called but they didn't pick up. Now after some months they called and stopped crying to my sister that we love you like sister and blah blah.
So my sister said ok I'll call you later. Don't know if they need any kind of help.
But they type of person who won't say anything if in need. As my sister felt their condition bad than before. They are kind of psychos and also felt she got married and might be pregnant when she was there and she might got divorce. But they didn't say anything.
They don't accept any kind of help. How could my sister help them.
Gr8heera though ur mail was lil hard to understand for me but base line is u guys don't like that/those girls so hav separate ways.if they call or drop by meet nicely just don't share anything imp.if they ask for help n u help then can go ahead otherwise pray Allah for them.if someone losese my trust i get cautious right away n limit my contact with them