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Dost kisey kehtey hain?
kya dost bannay ke leye dost ka naam janna zaroori hai? Jo ap ko apna naam batana guwara nahi karta, wo ap ka dost kesey ho sakta hai? Soochney ki baat hai…
Ap ka unn logon ke barey main kya khiyaal hai jo “pretend” kartey hain ke wo dost hain?
kya logon ko ye huq hai ke wo dosron ki feeling se khelain sirf es leye ke ye “internet” hai?
*]Jo #3 aur #4 log hain, un ke sath kesa salook karna chaheye?
Shukariya
now according to MY definition of a friend…I dont think it’s necessary to know their name. Although it would be odd not knowing it.
Those people that pretend to be your friend are nothing more then a two faced no good ahem ahem They dont deserve your friendship nor your respect. If they dont want to be friends with you then why fake it?
NO! no one has the right to play with one’s feelings even if this is the internet. Afterall behind all the wires, there exists a person…a human…someone with feelings. It’s just so wrong to do that :no:
avoid them if you can because in the end they’ll do nothing but hurt you.
kya dost bannay ke leye dost ka naam janna zaroori hai? Jo ap ko apna naam batana guwara nahi karta, wo ap ka dost kesey ho sakta hai? Soochney ki baat hai...
In the long run, yes, it is important to know a friend's name.
Ap ka unn logon ke barey main kya khiyaal hai jo "pretend" kartey hain ke wo dost hain?
Hopefully, you will figure out soon enough that they are pretending, then you can figure out if you want to spend any more time with them.
kya logon ko ye huq hai ke wo dosron ki feeling se khelain sirf es leye ke ye "inter*net*" hai?
Unfortunately, people take advantage that this is the Internet, and abuse relationships. This is one place where one can be whatever you choose to be and hide behind the computer. Whether it is their right or not: I think as humans we should respect each others feelings whether we are online or face to face.
Jo #3 aur #4 log hain, un ke sath kesa salook karna chaheye?
Personally, I think we should be wise to set our limits. With experience we can also determine who is worthy of our friendship and time. Hopefully we are mature enough to determine who is a friend or not.
someone who doesn't judge you no matter what
someone you can talk to and trust, laugh and cry with
someone who knows that you'll never want any harm for them
*2-kya dost bannay ke leye dost ka naam janna zaroori hai?*Jo ap ko apna naam batana guwara nahi karta, wo ap ka dost kesey ho sakta hai? Soochney ki baat hai... **
no matter what their name might be it does not change who they
are and what their personality is like.
3-Ap ka unn logon ke barey main kya khiyaal hai jo "pretend" kartey hain ke wo dost hain?
If a person is pretending then they are defenitely not your dost.
*4-kya logon ko ye huq hai ke wo dosron ki feeling se khelain sirf es leye ke ye "inter*net" hai? **
Kisi ko bhi ye haq nahi k kisi dosray ki feeling k sath khailay
internet ho ya real world.
5-Jo #3 aur #4 log hain, un ke sath kesa salook karna chaheye?
aisay logon ko utha k koon'aain mai phaink dena chahea
Thanks AE sahiba, buhat achi baat ki ap nain. ahem ahem kon hai?
Thank you niksik. I think knowing your friend is very important and that interaction should start from other person’s name. What is your name defines you, how you are and your personality. If you are not willing to share that or lie about it then there is certainly something wrong with how you look at concept of friendship and overall understanding of how *people *should collaborate.
Dost kisey kehtey hain?
A person you get along with, who understands you...is there for you not only for the fun part but in your sad, low days too...a person who respects you and trusts.
2.** kya dost bannay ke leye dost ka naam janna zaroori hai? Jo ap ko apna naam batana guwara nahi karta, wo ap ka dost kesey ho sakta hai? Soochney ki baat hai...**
Trust is necessary in friendship or in every relationship. If some1 is not comfortable enough with you to share their name with you that does tell you something abt that friendship or rather lack of it. BUT having said that it is also important to know why would some1 call you a friend and not wanna disclose their name to u? or why cudnt they just tell u their fake name as u wud have no way of finding out it was fake since its all on net...rite? so in this case you must ask the person what makes them keep their name private and maybe their reasoning will click with you.
Ap ka unn logon ke barey main kya khiyaal hai jo "pretend" kartey hain ke wo dost hain?
They are doing wrong. I don't undestand how people fake friendships?!?...thats really low.
4.** kya logon ko ye huq hai ke wo dosron ki feeling se khelain sirf es leye ke ye "inter*net*" hai?**
Ofcourse not. Nobody has that right whether online or offline.
5.** Jo #3 aur #4 log hain, un ke sath kesa salook karna chaheye?**
They don't deserve your friendship so leave them alone:).
Sorry but i respectfully disagree with few of above posts.
I think a friend is a mirror to your own personality. He/she shows u that how pretty or ugly u r. He'll be honest about it and will never pamper u to spoil. He will listen to you and will give his honest opinion. He will guide u no matter how much u want to do it otherwise. He will stay the same no matter how successful u r or not. He will go tell u'r parents instead of hiding u'r faults.
I think there are levels of friendships. Some people can be friends where they just spend an occasional exchange of conversation and go about their business.
Then there are closer friends with whom you share more detailed information about yourselves and your family. You associate with them frequently.
Then there are real close friends who influence your thought process and are invloved in helping you make decisions.
Once you are clear about which category your friends belong to, you can define your levels of expectations accordingly.
I agree with NaMaan that if you are a true friend to someone, you will not support them in wrongful acts but encourage them toward finding proper solutions.
Sorry but i respectfully disagree with few of above posts.
I think a friend is a mirror to your own personality. He/she shows u that how pretty or ugly u r. He'll be honest about it and will never pamper u to spoil. He will listen to you and will give his honest opinion. He will guide u no matter how much u want to do it otherwise. He will stay the same no matter how successful u r or not. He will go tell u'r parents instead of hiding u'r faults.
i always ask for name bas keera hai:chai:
They dont deserve your friendship nor your respect. If they dont want to be friends with you then why fake it?