Where from this concept of ‘Doodh Bakhshana’ came?
Does that have any religious importance or its just a ‘cultural blackmailing’ that prevails in our society?
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Don't have any idea of this cultural thing, is it specific to Islam?
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your post suggests that its only among Muslims. Its a blackmailing tool like 'iss laRki se shadi ki to doodh nahin bakhoon gi'.
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I asked question if it was specific to Islam, regarding the question, I never heard such thing :)
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Maan ka haq to ussay godi main lai kar Hajj bhi karwa do to poora nahi hota hia... to doodh bakhsna ya na bhakshan matter nahi karta hia.... koi ahmiat nahi hai iss jumly ki....
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I don't know but may be there would be some other thing (instead of doodh) that would have been used as an emotional blackmailing tool in other communities of sub-continent.
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tujhy meri kasam hia....
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I don't know but may be there would be some other thing (instead of doodh) that would have been used as an emotional blackmailing tool in other communities of sub-continent.
emotional blackmailing by mother to her son?
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Maan ka haq to ussay godi main lai kar Hajj bhi karwa do to poora nahi hota hia... to doodh bakhsna ya na bhakshan matter nahi karta hia.... koi ahmiat nahi hai iss jumly ki....
But why this 'doodh bakhshna' got prominence, when mother did a lot of things for children, which are beyond any compensation. Why this came from mothers and not from fathers (for things they do for their children)? Are ladies more into jatana business than men?
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emotional blackmailing by mother to her son?
yes, it is. Do you know any religious importance for this practice?
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Zahir hia… These kind of emotional blackmailing can only be done by moms… how come wives say… main doodh nahi bhakhsongi… 
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emotional blackmailing is one thing but I dont believe this notion is commonly used in our society. literature ki baat aur hai.
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aap ki soch ko bhi salam hai 
wo inheritance aur respect ka relation hai, aur mian bewi main so-called equality hoti hai.
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aap ki soch ko bhi salam hai :D wo inheritance aur respect ka relation ye mian bewi main so-called equality hoti hai.
agla thread ab **miyan bewi ki equality aur hamari saqafat **par hona chahiye.....
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yes, it is. Do you know any religious importance for this practice?
In Islam, mother has got a grand status and there are a lot of teachings regarding obeying your parents. so it is possible someone derived this notion from these ethics.
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nothin g to do with Islam. it's just a cultural thingy. the Ionly Qur'aanic injunction is to treat your parents with love and respect and to serve them, especially when they reach the old age.
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nothin g to do with Islam. it's just a cultural thingy. the Ionly Qur'aanic injunction is to treat your parents with love and respect and to serve them, especially when they reach the old age.
^ Parents ki jawani main tu tarakh chal sakti hia?
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^ Parents ki jawani main tu tarakh chal sakti hia?
lol...no! Allah has mentioned old age because they then need to be taken care of physically. in their jawani, they don't need to be physically taken care unless they have some incapacitating/debilitating health issues.
as far as love and respect and obeying is considered you are stuck with it for life.