Re: dont want to go.
you should not have agreed and may be he would not have married you if you had disagreed before marriage. I think you are being unfair to him and by agreeing with him before and now disagreeing you have in my point of view tricked him.
why everything has to be about you ? why his priorities and wishes are not being considered ?
my sincere advise to you is to go with him and fulfill your promise that u made with him and don’t spoil the situation any further because aj nahi to kaal u will have to go.