nadz123
November 20, 2010, 6:24am
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Re: dont want to go.
I think you are really hurt that he was being rude to you, so you dont want to do anything right now that is what he wants. I know because I do the same thing. When my fiance hurts my feelings, I dont want to do anything, or listen to anything that he wants. Maybe you need a few days to calm down, and think things through with an open and cool mind. Tell your husband you need a few days before you discuss it again, and then you can tell him that you will move (if that is what you decided) but he has to do it on your (Nadz) timeline. So if you need until April, May, June, he should wait, and after that you will willingly go with him. And if his family is well off there, and he is getting good job offers, I dont think there will be any problem with you coming back home to your parents whenever you want. Its kind of a win-win situation.
thing is, i already said lets wait a year, which he has, a year was up in august this year. so…he is now waiting another 6 months really until march…i hjave no excuses.: