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That’s excatly wot i say to them too, that America is such a rich country that we know the government is gonna help them a lot…and that shudn’t i be more worried about ppl in a third world country 
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she is right. why should she care about ppl and their problems in pak? if she doesn't want to worry herself about them then thats her choice. live with it and let her be.
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Why did she go to the vigil? To be an ass? For “show”?
If one wants to be uncaring, they should have the decency to keep it to themselves.
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ppl do a lot of things for a lot of reasons, whether they are logical or silly…depends on their understanding…
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Welcome to GS Manna 
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heya manna! i already said she came for a coffee break from studies..to see me..kinda walk and talk…
i think she shoulda understood the fact that I took the event seriously.
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i think its unfair that we're judging the friend... she has some very valid points and i reckon at times i say stuff like that too.. she was only voicing her opinions cus SD "is" her bestfriend... and if you cant be honest about ur feelings with a best friend, then who?
SD has her own way of dealing with this huge disaster.. whereas the friend is just angry.. i know a lot of people who think like that..
and no, her friend shouldnt have to go thru anythign to realise the devastation of the earthquake...
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sorry to say but your friend is a Moron.
it doesnt matter how she feels about the whole vigil thing she should respect the fact that her best friend (you) thinks that its something important..
First of all if it was me and she didnt feel like going to the vigil, you shoulda been like okay whatever.. if u had to force her and she acted in that manner, someone needs to slap her hard so she can lose some of that cockyness that she seems to have...
I'm not harsh i swear, i just really dislike people who carry themselves in such lame n idiotic ways.. Good Luck !
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You did the right thing.
You have to respect your feelings and what you stand for. If others can’t respect what’s important to you, bid them a nice ‘sayonara’. Life is too short.
Sharing your grief is a very personal thing and creates strong bond among people. I think at some deep level you felt insulted by her not respecting you enough to empathize.
Again, good job!