don't label unmarried girls as snobbish or picky

Lifestyle Relationships
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^ I agree with Munni. People (men and women) will be picky about a lot of things. And what's considered "picky" by one person may not be thought of as picky to another person. And sometimes the families of the guy and the girl can be more pickier than the two individuals involved!

People have been** REJECTED **for: looks, voice, laughter, height, education, profession, the way they walk, being too Americanized, being too Desi, not knowing how to do household chores, being a cousin, being a NON-cousin, being of a different caste, speaking a different language, being too religous, not being religious enough, being too outgoing, being too quiet, being too maadern (modern), being too backwards, living too far away, being brought up in a different culture, dislike of family, for being handicapped, for being in a previous relationship, for not being parents' choice, for being too young, for being too old, giving off a strange vibe, being previously divorced.............

You name it, people have been rejected for all types of "picky" reasons. Picky is part of being human. As Munni said, at the end of the day you'll marry someone whom you are satisfied with. And ultimately it's your decision.

Although as previous posters mentioned, it's good to have some compromise. And the reason why they are so concerned about you is that the number of rishtas dwindle as single women grow older. But it's best to let go of a rishta that you strongly feel you can't accept as opposed to living a life of marital hell. We hope that InshaAllah you'll find a wonderful guy soon that you will find attractive and compatible with yourself, Aamin:)

Timepass-Jan 2013
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Re: don’t label unmarried girls as snobbish or picky

/\ That is a seriously good reply. :k:

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^ Why thank you:)

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A very encompassing argument! I liked the the depth and breadth of your explanation.

You're welcome! :)

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Ok...so where is CW???she was going to meet him on Sat :D.

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/\ probably got married to him. :D

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^ Aww..let's hope for the good result from her :D.

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If we can pick and choose anything and everything in life and we are free to do so then why not pick and choose a life partner , the one you intend to live with all your life , happily ever after.
It is good to not to give in to pressures , but it is also not good to drive a hard bargain either.
As everything else in life one hopes to obtain or achieve one has to look at what one is bringing to the table . One can only get what one can.
Being a successful and enlightened woman does not make a woman very desirable for a very handsome, successful and well educated man . A woman might be successful , professional and highly educated but still she might not possess what that imaginary prince charming of hers is looking for.
Her parents however might find her and that undergraduate from so so university as a perfect match for each other based on certain criteria of theirs.Some weight should be given to their judgment and wisdom too.

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Well somebody is getting bent out of shape :hehe:

Timepass-Jan 2013
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Re: don’t label unmarried girls as snobbish or picky

Oh my Lord Magic 8 Ball is redvelvet? :smack:

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Bad bad example. Seal is still attractive, has nice features, build etc. Also he is successful in his career. Sometimes scars add attraction. so to use Heidi klum and seal as an example for women overlooking looks is an inaccurate example.

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^ Ha ha!

I still think they are a good good example. She looked through his scars and asked him out when he was ill and looking his worst! Everyone has heir own different opinions and see's each person differently. :)

Timepass-Jan 2013
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If anyones lucky its Heidi, Seal is well fit!

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And the scars on his face are due to Lupus.... just FYI :)

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Ok people you can get back to main topic now :D

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Is that meant as an insult? Oh my LORD…Jaanwar is such a jaanwar! :snooty:

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Maybe she likes it ..umm.. well let’s just say she has a thing for rugged looking men :faizy:

Sadqa
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well catwomen! yes chicken biryani and co have given a great and good advise to you.

well no! i don't agree with u that all gorgous guys act like irresponsible ones, 5 fingers are not equal. it's only their thoughts that most of the girls and boys who are beautiful, become proudy or get involved in bad things and so on.

otherwise, there are also many gorgous guys and girls who are shareef, responsible and good.

so plz! change ur thoughts bcoz 5 fingers are not equal. ehh?

:)

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and Reality! as u said that whatever the guy is looking, it doznt matter. but from my point of view it doz matter bcoz afterall, girls also have their feelings, their dreams like boys. only boys are not everything in life.

we must give women their full Islamic rights.

:)

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Oh come on :hehe: not meant as an insult at all :hugz: just the writing style.