don't label unmarried girls as snobbish or picky

[Nazz]

@cat-woman

My family is trying to get me to talk to this guy who is from an ‘acha khandaan’ and is ‘very shareef’ and I agreed to look into it, but I stated flatly my demands and what I expect and also indicated that looks-wise he doesn’t appeal to me at all. Now I’m getting told that I shouldn’t have so much pride and don’t look at the looks, guys blossom after marriage etc. I also got put off that he went to a so-so university and not a top one and only has an undergrad.

But given that I’m in my late 20s, been through several rishta procedures where the guys turned out to be total asses and left me wailing, I had to get together my self-confidence, make myself who I am today and figure out what it is I want.

Now I appreciate the family looking after my future, but I cannot be arsed to talk to guys anymore. It seems like a futile set-up, and so contrived coz I know as soon as I start communicating with him, everyone will want to know whats going on.

Just leave me alone

OMG ..i know and understand exactly how you feel and what youre going thru…its just unfair…