Re: Don't get it...Why "Date"??
hmm i think its right to go out with a person you suppose to marry. good mature people deserve that.
i only met once my fiance before nikkah with quite efforts and in presence of her sister. its just cause I wanted to meet a person who i am getting married to. it has its own charms. its that feeling you will never feel after marriage.
I went on proper dinner a day after nikkah! only her mother and sisters knew about it.
date mean different in different countries and cultures even in west. so dont assume it invlove more than a dinner!!!! if you are then change your thinking.
one question though??? why you got engaged? and whats the purpose of engagement if you cant even try to know each other???