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LOL. nah I’d be happy to have a vegetarian DIL.
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because they were tired of your publicly chipkoness.
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because they were tired of your publicly chipkoness.
That's the thing, I never even sat down next to him infront of my inlaws.
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Hareem he wrote - i wouldn’t want or was it like… my wife coming on here talking about my parents 
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The in-laws giving you advice must have been awkward though, lol.
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agree with DP.
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oh okay…that’s because you’re a Paki larka. 
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That's the thing, I never even sat down next to him infront of my inlaws.
So how were you chipkoo according to them then, if you didn't display any chipkooness in front of them?
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^for some people even talking in public is chipkoness. : D
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So how were you chipkoo according to them then, if you didn't display any chipkooness in front of them?
I have no idea. May be going out with him everyday? Not spending enough time with them?
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'Seems like they didn't like their son giving you more time and importance than them'
This.. My mum used to be like this with my sil, am sure it was more down to jealousy than anything else..
As others have said I would have thought being that close with your husband would be a positive..
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Chipkoo - a new member of the chipmonks...Alvin, Simon, Theodero
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In close relationships, chipkuness is a need of not the body, but the soul. Physical affection without any other agenda increases serotonin in the body. Its the same hormone that increases when you pray and meditate, connect with God. Dont forget to hug your spouse, parents, siblings, friends, children, pets, etc. Hug them often, hold their hands, cuddle with children, keep soul in mind. Keep love in your intention.
Serotonin makes the body calm and healthy. It soothes the mind. Traditionally, the newborns, especially the premature, are massaged with love, in order to get them strong and healthy. When serotonin is low in the body, you'll feel depressed.
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so one day when he was at work they sat me down and started giving me a strange advice. They said "don't be too chipkoo to him, if you're chipkoo then he will run away from you".
Hareem, the fact is and i am sure you understand that too much chipkoo-ness is not good. You guys probably were newly weds so it's ok. But in general, any chipko-ness or possessive behaviour would strangle anyone.
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Peace All
The reason my parents were telling her to give me a bit of distance was because at the time things were not so great ... they wanted me to have space to work and have room to do things that I used to do ... I had a lot of freedom that they saw ended after marriage ... that is the only reason ... it was never for their own ends ... my mum is not a typical desi mum either she didn't want my time unless I was going shopping I could take her ...
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^Completely understandable psyah!. Actually, your parents seem very understanding of you.
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^I'm not saying they did something bad, it's just I didn't like it at that time, and yes you can have as much freedom as you like I won't bother you.
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In the beginning of our marriage we lived with his parents, and they were obviously analysing my behaviour towards their son (we were spending a lot of time together), so one day when he was at work they sat me down and started giving me a strange advice. They said "don't be too chipkoo to him, if you're chipkoo then he will run away from you".
I strongly disagreed with what they said because it never happened, I stayed chipkoo and he never tried to go after some other girl. I still think if they were truly sincere in their advice?
Well, to be on their side, they never said that "he will run away from you and go after some other girl" - they just said " he will run away from you". Two diff things in my opinion.
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and yes you can have as much freedom as you like I won't bother you.
Bwahahahahaha, jhagraa ho gayaa
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TLK I locked this thread ages ago. 
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o crap