Sooo if the woman is driving a man insane verbally, he cannot do the same back but should resort to physical abuse? Sorry but that is exactly the kind of mentality that makes men hit their wives.
If she’s verbally abusing you, do it back if you can’t control your anger.. but noone, and I mean noone should be allowed to raise their hands and hit their spouse. It’s a sign of weakness, not some sort of strength, and there’s absolutely no justification for that behavior. Any man who thinks he needs to raise his hand in order to get a message across or prove a point needs help.