Doing the deed

[Reha]

Re: Doing the deed

@akaprincess

Yes, I agree with you .. love and care (sort of) without sexual relations is just friendship..
but also - to sum your whole married life on that, and leave if it doesnt get better .., that’s a problem too isnt it ?

What happens when you have talked about it, and still not much changes ? And when you do, you just dont feel like it, or, it doesnt ummm feel good and whatnot .. then what?

And if you move on, what’s the guarantee thr next one won’t be the same way? Unless you do a test trial

You’re not summing up your married life as sex but as a wife, you do have the right to enjoy intimacy with your husband. If you’re the type that can live without it, fine. No problem. But many cannot and there is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to leave a sex-less marriage.

In the scenario that you don’t enjoy being intimate with your husband, you can go to couples therapy. Its something you can discuss with your PCP as well…they will have suggestions for you as to what to try.

As for guarantees for the next marriage…there are no guarantees for anything. Not a thing. People who leave don’t do it because they’re looking for something else…they leave because their current situation is unbearable.