Married people -
How important is doing the deed (intimacy) and related acts to you? How does it effect your relationship?
If there is a lack of, would you leave your husband/wife, considering everything else is going fine in life with that person?
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Really important.
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Well I’m divorced and not currently married or doing any deeds lol but I can tell you from my past experience it’s extremely important to connect in that way with your partner regularly!
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She has to be good at it too, otherwise it’s a dealbreaker lol.
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Hahaha so not only quantity, quality counts too
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Reminded me of something a christian friend once said when he found out I don’t date. He was like how the heck do you marry someone without knowing if you are compatible in that way. So third string, how would you know if she was good before hand?
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Exactly! lol oy vey… third string I think the idea is that you get “good at it” together 
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Married people -
How important is doing the deed (intimacy) and related acts to you? How does it effect your relationship?
*in addition to companionship the benefits of THE DEED are:
Having more sx may increase how long you live. Sx releases several hormones in the body, increases intimacy and bonding, and works against loneliness and depression. Staying sxually active has physical, stress relieving, social and mental benefits. According to the RealAge books, frequent orgsms—about 100 per year—can increase life expectancy by 3 to 8 years.
However, keep in mind that the science on this is somewhat spotty.
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**And who cares about Science; in real life experiences people who are doing the deed **more often, do live longer Indeed ! :biggthumb:
[Studies](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9448525?dopt=AbstractPlus) show that men with a high frequency of org*sms have a 50 percent reduction in mortality risk.
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Very important.
Intimacy allows people to connect in a way that makes them fall in love again and forgive each other’s issues.
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If she wears a choker, means she’s gooood.
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Lmao this ain’t no Olympic training camp, she either good or she ain’t.
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What the hell… have you never heard of practice makes perfect? Besides! What makes you think YOU are any good in that department 
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Girl, I’m an mvp in this okay. Practice only makes perfect if you’re willing, otherwise the other person can’t force you to get good.
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Lol when I started off (and yes I was too old), I was so hopeless! and then things got better and better, the more the merrier!
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LOL @third_string you crack me up!
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Lmao that right there shows how much you know.
Mvp? Keep telling yourself that.
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There’s no way you can say otherwise
Oh and chokers tell a lot about a girl lol.
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No they do not.
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Well congratulations lol.
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Just never mind, can’t fix stereotypes.