we do this between our families , my mum is always packing us food when we go over on the weekend , sometimes we ask for it too . but only if there is enough. if there isnt enough we can just say it to each other. similarly we do this for my mum too when she comes around our house . we do for our phuppo too and she does the same for us
i dont think i wll be too happy to do it for some random aunty especially if she asks for it , there is no harm but i find it a bit rude . why should i pack a dinner for your son and husband who didnt bother attending the dawat .