hmm… these ppl are “modern” enough to seek rishtas on an online message board but not enough to let go of their caste nonsense. that’s weird… bhai if you’re so hung up on this zaat/baradari nonsense, then marry your cousin (preferably first cousin) and get it over with…
I don’t think educated ppl in Pakistan care about this caste nonsense. could be wrong… just my impression.