If so, what do you do about it?
The joota alaaj or the “lets talk it out” alaaj? or do you just ignore?
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i wouuld KILL him :@
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http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/343281-married-men-taank-jhaank.html
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The melon-baller 'elaaj'
i wouuld KILL him :@
and u never look at them:D:
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maybe teh guys admiring the creation of God :p
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Is the relation pretty new? IT happens guys still are not use to controlling their gaze in the beginning.
If the you two bored of each other then that happens too.
But if that is not the case and he still does that he is just a shallow low life.
(make him read this)
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^ I agree
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What is the big deal? Some of you girls need to relax. You aint the only pretty girl in the world to them.
i am surprised moderators openly allow provocative chauvinistic posts/threads with this level of sexism and misandry to remain
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^ whats 'sexism' got to do with it? Some girls r insecure. You cant help that.
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^ Well, the only moderator who has responded thus far is Gina.......and saying that a woman should use a melon baller to scoop out her husband's wandering eyes........would not be called supporting husbands with roving eyes.
It could be that the moderators haven't showed up yet. And as far as "Spouse's Wandering Eyes" are concerned.......it's a life issue. The wandering eye could even belong to a wife. This IS the Life and Relationships Forum.....the thread seems appropriately placed. There are a variety of issues in a marriage....................and people will ALWAYS vary in their opinions. Some might be to the far right.........some might to the far left........and some will be in between.
^ whats 'sexism' got to do with it? Some girls r insecure. You cant help that.
Hmmm........"insecurity" itself can be a complicated topic to deal with, MB. There is a limit to things..........even to behavior that is generally considered not polite. You know that some behaviors are a part of human nature. But where do you draw the line? At what point does it become a "problem" ?????
Would the frequency of the roving eye draw the line? Would the manner in which the SO's orbs are roving about draw the line? What would it be?
If Islam says to "lower your gaze"..........then there must be a reason or several reasons for it. Sure, we can't walk around with our eyes closed......and we DO have to make eye contact and interact with the opposite sex in various daily settings. Jealousy is a part of human nature as well............but we're advised to control that too. One can argue that it's human nature........but when even the simplest and most natural of things/emotions go out of control........they can have consequences.....for **both **parties.
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Yeah but, its normal, when you see a good looking male or female you look. I mean im a female and when i see a gudlooking female even i think 'wow', So imagine what men think. Its normal. I dont feel jealous if my bf looked at anyone, bcoz i myself look at guys if i find them goodlooking, theres no harm in that. Its not cheating, its jus admiring beauty. Like Prophet Yousaf was a very very very handsome man.
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ocne ya get married, the entire opposite gender does not turn ugly
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my husband prefers to look at school buildings..cz...buildling schools is his fantasy.
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LOL cough
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Need a strepsil Stoppits?
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No man, just a pat on the back. Seems like I have a comment stuck in my throat.