Is it true that your upbringing and background helps you in making future decisions for your children? Of course it does but does it help you negatively or positively? Like how do you find balance in making decisions, you don’t wanna be too agressive but you don’t wanna be too lenient.
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All these threads sound like highschool essay assignments 
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mushkil test dene to koi aata nahin 
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pata nahi UZ yaar i am not at stage of having children. I think some desis emphasise on saving so they teach their children not to spend and be more kanjoos in their approach. Upbringing can make you spend on what is considered the right type of thing like school stuff, studies, hobbies and sports rather than faltu things. It depends what the parents emphasise for their children.
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Ji nahi yeh essay nahi 
can’t we discuss anything.
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exactly. like someone googled for bland topic ideas and posted them one after the other.
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Really I start posting threads and I get blame.
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Yes, it does.
Background/upbringing does influence what people try to impose on their children.
But as it is a universal phenomenon, children do also pick up their identity based on their environment…just like their own parents did when they were growing up.
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Yes, since children are always around their parents, they will most likely pick up after their parents.
Thankfully I’m an exception.