when deciding on what to wear…do you dress for your spouse or for yourself?
if your spouse liked a particular outfit on you, but you really dont like it, would you still continue to wear it? or chuck it in the back of your closet?
if your spouse didn’t like a particular outfit on you (or the way it fit or made you look), but you like it, would you still continue to wear it? or chuck it in the back of your closet?
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I dress for myself but if he doesn't like a dress on me I don't feel like wearing it.
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when deciding on what to wear....do you dress for your spouse or for yourself?
if your spouse liked a particular outfit on you, but you really dont like it, would you still continue to wear it? or chuck it in the back of your closet?
if your spouse didn't like a particular outfit on you (or the way it fit or made you look), but you like it, would you still continue to wear it? or chuck it in the back of your closet?
I am told what to wear.
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shuru k 5 saal k chonchley hain :)
After having couple of kids we started spending our mind and energy on what looks good on our kids but yeah once in a while...I tell her "hey bohat dinoon sai tum nai wo wala suite nahi pehna...." or she tells me "...this looks good on u" and life moves on.
Plus over time, u will know exactly what ur spouse will like/dislike. So depending on if you wana please her or tease her, you will dress accordingly :)
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i dont feel like wearing what my hubby doesnt like that much ..though i dont completely chuck it off ...i do wear it sometimes !
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i want to look good for myself and for him. i always tell him, whenever we go out, we represent each other.
he usually likes what i wear. phew. if he thinks that whatever im wearing is not suitable for where we are going (ex. he prefers that i wear abayas/skirts/shalwar kameez instead of pants/jeans at the masjid) i will change.
if i dont like what he is wearing he'll change. this is usually when we are going out somewhere together.
if he goes on his own, he can wear whatever he likes.
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She'd always object to me wearing a lungi outdoors. :(
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She'd always object to me wearing a lungi outdoors. :(
i thought you were she.
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Combination of both.
When buying outfits, I always ask for his opinion. If he really dislikes something, I don't buy it. And regardless of what he likes....if I really dislike an outfit, I don't buy it.
He does the same when it comes to buying clothing for himself.
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i thought you were she.
nope
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One of my friends would frequently a
sk her husband if looked fat, if a woman on tv or in real life is pretty. I dont think its healthy and can cause problems. Ive told myself its one of the questipns im going to avoid asking my spouse.
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the thing is i don't look at myself... if he doesnt like a particular outfit on me...i wudn't feel like wearing it even if i had ever liked it ...
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i wear what i like not what my spouse likes. my spouse will have every right to express the likeness or dislikeness for the outfit only if i have asked for the opinion.
i only listen to my parents as in for eg if i like a shirt and they say it is not nice dont wear then i wont.
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^ so u take ur parents opinion but not your spouse's?
interesting.
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I wear what I like. Screw him!
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Me and him have same taste's so this is hardly ever an issue. If anythig i'm the one that say's wear this with that :p
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men don’t have any sense of style unless they r gay, i wouldnt waste my time thinking about if they like what i wear 
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i want to look good for myself and for him. i always tell him, whenever we go out, we represent each other.
he usually likes what i wear. phew. if he thinks that whatever im wearing is not suitable for where we are going (ex. he prefers that i wear abayas/skirts/shalwar kameez instead of pants/jeans at the masjid) i will change.
if i dont like what he is wearing he'll change. this is usually when we are going out somewhere together.
if he goes on his own, he can wear whatever he likes.
We're the same...if we are going somewhere together then we take each ohers opinion into account, but if we're going somewhere by ourselfs we usually wear what ever we want though from time to time he'll ask me if something is appropiate and I'll ask him the same
I'm not a barbie girl, in a barbie world, so I do not believe in others dressing me.
Lol @ partyslims being a girl heheee!!
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Why blame the clothes? :p