Suppose you were to get married.
The girl/boy has every thing you are looking for - well educated,decent family, decency & values, financially stable, happy calm natured etc. but has below average looks. He/She is extremely bulky and just normal in overall looks.
Would you go ahead with the marriage? I want to know how much of weight do looks & sizes actually play in the marriage.
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I would. What if you marry a guy with a perfect body who gains weight after marriage ? Would you leave him them ?
For some people it does matter and for some it doesn’t . It’s perfectly fine when someone choose not to marry an over weight man/woman because physical attraction has to be there in a marriage. But like someone once said to me that it should be a 80:20 ratio. 20% looks and 80 % all other factors.
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physical attraction matters to me so perhaps i wont go ahead with such marriage. however there is no hard-fast rule. and if the family and the person are REALLY nice etc so maybe i will tell that person to do some grooming etc.
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If there was absolutely no physical attraction I wouldn’t go thru with it..
I am less fussed about certain other things like family background tho.. Couldn’t care less how educated his parents or uncles and aunties are, what caste they belong to etc.
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I don’t think I would… 
I know i myself am not very extraordinary looking but i do consider myself to be quite into fitness and being active n all… so I guess I automatically also look for someone like that.
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I will go with it unless I strongly feel that I’m not at all into him appearance wise.
I’ll have a much much easier time overlooking appearance compared to character flaws.
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If the guy or girl have huge tid, i don’t think so you can enjoy sex .. well you can’t have it. It’s a big turn off, on top of that he/she eat more..
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Speaking from experience?
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yeh dude i had a gf from rawalpindi in back days, man she have such a big tidd .. it wasn’t fun at all .. :nono:
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I don’t believe in marriage, so it’d take a really attractive woman to get me to consider it.
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oh hey I’m so cool I don’t believe in marriage 
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Alas, Desi society looks down upon my kind.
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My Saudi Arab Jaani must be pyara.
He should have hair upto his shoulder that too straight and silky.
He should pray 5 times a day and respect me and my family.
His muscle should be phating(popping out) out of his shirt. Must be fit faat.
And have a nice cutie face.
Ya Habibi, Wa aana fee alhub ma3ak <3
Ya hub, min fadlik la yakoon aksar mil alterjeeya 
Al rajah talbeet alhatiyahjat baldiyh.
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Either you do not know what ‘having every thing’ is one looks for…or ‘extremely bulky’ in your opinion is just a ‘norm’ people would not consider important.
Having said that, there maybe few percentages of individuals attracted to extremely bulky opposite sex persons, but that is not a norm.
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Anta la am’al lah siddiqui…:halo:
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Urdu or English please. 
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Yes, but which truth, habibi :S
Hahahah Gina bahie, are you talking about the convo we had once in that chat? LOL
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All I wished that Urdu or English be used for conversation /sentence
..and if other language is used, then a translation should be provided…
… unless one word or two are used which someone can search the meaning of and get the message. 
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I can understand what you are saying. What Gina bahie is saying that I tell the truth.