I wonder where it is said about separte accomodation !
But, just answer one question: If u don’t liek the idea of living with his parents, just say NO, ok? Why the hell u married a guy who lives with his parents???
And yes, I do agree, a girl should help her parents in all ways. And if it is possible, a man can live with girl’s parents.
But my logic is very simple. Solve all these logistics before marriage. Don’t bring this and that demand after marriage.